Tuesday, January 25, 2022

The Closing of an Era

    Last week Carolyn and I closed on my condo in St. Simons Island. The buyers, a couple from New York, are preparing to move in as we speak.

   Mayre Lou and I had moved to the Island back in 1995, after a couple of nasty winters in Apison. We did things there. We met new people there who became good friends. In short, there are a lot of memories for me there, and, as we, Carolyn and I, spent a day there last week, we talked a lot about what it was like to live there. 

   We talked about the weather. That day was a 70 degree day with sunshine aplenty. We smiled as we looked at the weather on our phones and saw that the high in Harrison was a chilly 37. Mayre Lou loved being warm in the winter.

   The Island sunrises at the beach and the sunsets looking back over the marsh toward the mainland never failed to put a smile on our faces and joy in our hearts.

   Perhaps a very brief history of our lives, Mayre Lou's and mine, on this spit of land in the Atlantic is in order. 

   We moved here in 1995 as I stated above. In 2005 we moved to Virginia to help Doug and Dawn with their newest family addition, Lucy. After 3 years there we moved back to SSI, bought a condo at Grandview and settled in to live out our lives there. Mayre passed away in 2018.

   The memories for me, are still there. The being a part of a new church was a series of events that brought much happiness and commitment to our lives, and just the experience of day to day living, with all of its normality, was special to us all those years.

   We lived on a golf course, Sea Palms, and I took advantage of that opportunity to play a lot of golf, alone, and with friends. At one point I figured that I was averaging 5 nine hole rounds a week. Just walk out the door and hit the ball. I had never heard of Pickleball then, but got plenty of walking in with 2 or 3 miles every day. Riding my bike was great exercise over many bike trails with no hills to cope with.

   Our foursome played golf every Friday morning early. The friendships were easy and the competition fierce. Thanks Jim, Fritz and Patrick.

   People called it Paradise, and we agreed. It was. But it was paradise with a small p. At certain times the flying insects were a real pain. However, the good outweighed the bugs, and the good times totally outlasted the inconvenience of swatting.

   Mayre and I were happy there and I was glad to relive some of those times as we toured around the Island. Our family loved the Island, too.

   The day after our closing last week, Carolyn and I took the time to look up friends and just be Islanders enjoying the great weather that is so much a part of life there.

   We started out Thursday, having breakfast at our first house we owned there, with our hosts. Herb was our realtor on the condo deal, and Ann is a long time friend. They opened their home to us on this occasion as they had many times before. I even got to talk with Tom Mitchell, who lived next door and was our neighbor when we lived there. A fine chance encounter to begin this visitation day.

   We stopped first at the church that has been a part of God's blessing in our lives. Meeting with Jim Kay was special as our lives were intertwined over the time of our residence. 

   Then on to Char's Salon. Many was the time that Mayre got her hair done there, then I had my hair trimmed there also, Even Carolyn had been treated to  Char's expertise. Char is one fine lady.

   Fritz had invited us to lunch with him at Mullet Bay, and those conversations, and the laughter involved in tales and situations of the past, was special, too.

   While dining, we ran into two couples that lived at Grandview when we did. A chance meeting with these folks and a good time sharing Grandview experiences. 

    One last visit before the day ended. To Marshes Edge we went to see Anne Johnson. Reliving many times at Grandview and beyond, and hearing her share about her situation and her family that we knew was a highlight of the day.

   We even got to stop in at the airport, one of Mayre's favorite places on the Island. She was privileged to work there for many years. Aviation and hanging around with aviation people was her thing.

   But one day was not enough time to see all we wanted. We made some contacts, and. we also visited with others that were not on our agenda. All in all, it was a good day.

   And we were not leaving St. Simons never to return. Hopefully the days ahead will give us other opportunities to see these folks again, and to catch up with others that we missed. 

   The Island was pretty as usual. The weather was pure "Chamber of Commerce". But it has always been the people that make this place special. 

   And it made this time for us special as well.

   Heads up, Barby and Westy, Uncle Don, Jeff and Leigh Ann, Suzy, Will and Joan, Jackie and Don, Brad and Tami and any others that might have been in our orbit over the past 27 years. 

   Your time will come...




   

Tuesday, January 4, 2022

The Intrepid Travelers Are On The Move, Again

   Way back in 2019, on a trip to Wyoming, we decided to try out the Airbnb system, and had great places to stay. When we traveled to the Delmarva area this past summer, we ventured out again and stayed in 3 more. Each unit was different, all presented a sort of adventure, and so when planning our Holiday trip to Arkansas to be with Donna's family, we decided to give this form of lodging another chance to enhance our journey. 

   Why not combine a king sized bed with a sense of the historical? Sounds good to us.


   Our hosts in Conway, had taken an old corner grocery and remodeled it into a comfortable home right close to the downtown area. Living room, master bedroom, spare bedroom, study and kitchen, all for us.

   We spent 3 nights here, slept well and fed our selves from some furnished goodies when we were not dining on Redbud Drive, 5 minutes away, with dinners by Noel, and lunches from the Murray larder.

   But life in Conway is not all food and rest, we also played.


   Board games like Sorry and card games like Skipbo and Tip Top.



   On one beautiful day (when the rain stayed away), we were outdoors bringing the excitement of Pickleball to our Arkansas family, especially Donna and Archer.

   Then there was a Wednesday, where the forecast was filled with rain possibilities, so an early start on our Morning Walk took us downtown. As we made a turn toward home, halfway on our exercise plan, we got a few sprinkles, and then came the rest. We were only a few blocks from our house, so Carolyn took a convenient bench, while her brave husband volunteered to go for the Envision. It really rained. It was a toad strangler, or a trash mover, if you like that better, but, with no umbrella in sight, a man ran (a loose term in this case) from awning to awning, trying desperately to stay reasonably dry. 


   I called Donna for help, and fortunately Noel was out running some errands. Every time the rain let up just a bit, the wet man sought the path home. and alas, by the time Noel found the man he was just getting into his car at the rental house. Wet but not deterred, Carolyn was retrieved from the park bench under the awning.where she had patiently waited for a ride home. Back to the house, clothes thrown into the dryer, dry clothes substituted, and on to Lunch with the family.


   Not to be foiled in a historical search for the oldest Courthouse in Arkansas, we took off the next morning for Searcy, site of the White County Courthouse. Still in use, the 1871 building was residing in glory in the middle of town. 

   We had to take off the next morning early for Nashville for a visit with Carolyn's son, Rush, wife Joan, grandchildren and great grandsons. Rush and Joan had just moved into their new home and it was stunning to say the least.


   As good as it was, a corner grocery did not prepare us for the splendor of this residence. We got to stay in a great bedroom, were treated with a gourmet dinner, watched Tennessee lose to Purdue in the Music City Bowl, and had fun with grandkids and 2 "greats". It was a good day.



   Oops, almost forgot our sideline trip to another courthouse. Dickson County's old courthouse was situated in Charlotte, not far off our route to Nashville. A small town with a definite small town feel, gave us pleasure as we walked the square and speculated on how life was "back in the day". This courthouse was built in 1835 after the original was destroyed by a tornado in 1833.

   Friday morning brought us a good breakfast, a proper sendoff for a quick trip home to Harrison. 

   A quick Monday to Friday trip had brought us family, courthouses, playtime, good conversation and was well worth the car trips to get it done. 

   I bet we'll do it again, one day. 

   Just not tomorrow.